by Vishnu | Dec 15, 2020 | Forgiveness, Letting Go, Love and Relationships
Are you blaming yourself for your past relationship ending? Do you feel like you are the on that’s solely at fault? Do you feel like you were the one who sabotaged it and led to it ending? If you’re feeling terrible about the past relationship ending and...
by Vishnu | Oct 21, 2020 | Letting Go, Love and Relationships
All of the advice about moving on from breakups and divorces is wrong. It’s so frustrating because all it does is keep you stuck in the past. So many people say cliched things like things will get better, it’s all happening for the best or time will heal all wounds....
by Mahevash Shaikh | Sep 6, 2020 | Breakup, Divorce, Letting Go, Love and Relationships
Divorce is never easy, irrespective of whether the decision is mutual, the marriage was abusive, or the relationship was short-lived. Things are much harder when kids are involved, but being child-free, it is not my story to tell. What I can tell you is how I learned...
by Vishnu | Aug 25, 2020 | Love and Relationships, Resilience, Travel
I met a wonderful woman in my most recent travels to Bali. She was in Indonesia because her brother had just passed away. Her brother took his life because of a painful breakup and rejection of a young woman he had fallen in love with. I was in Indonesia because I had...
by Vishnu | Aug 10, 2020 | Breakup, Love and Relationships, Resilience
I couldn’t process the unbearable pain of a breakup and my ultimate divorce. I have never felt the depth of intensity of emotional pain as much as I did then. It was so scathing that all I wanted to do was hide from the world. My inner world felt like the combination...
by Vishnu | Jun 29, 2020 | Breakup, Divorce, Love and Relationships
Did I think I could find someone better than my ex? My ex-wife is an amazing woman who overcame so many challenges in her life to become the woman she has become today. She is a doctor, beautiful, smart, outgoing, organized, and charming. She was a great cook and...
