by Vishnu | Aug 3, 2020 | Breakup, Healing, Marriage
When I tell people that I write about heartbreak all day and coach the heartbroken, I get all kinds of reactions. Often, I don’t mention the work that I do at all because I can’t explain this phenomenon to other people. I can’t tell them why I’m willing to...
by Vishnu | Apr 27, 2020 | Divorce, Love and Relationships, Marriage
You want to save your marriage. But your spouse doesn’t. What do you do? I vowed to do I would do whatever I could to save my marriage. When my ex told me that she wanted out of the marriage, I felt breathless and my heart started racing. I felt light-headed, afraid,...
by Vishnu | Aug 20, 2019 | Love and Relationships, Marriage
The first and most common thought that strikes us after a life-shaking breakup is that you’re going to be alone the rest of your life. You believe that because one person rejected you or one person ended the relationship with you, then everyone is going to have the...
by Vishnu | Aug 5, 2018 | Love and Relationships, Marriage
I wondered out loud last week how couples stay married, after tying the knot. I theorized that it’s easy to be in a good relationship when dating but there’s a serious plot twist after marriage. The chase is more enticing than the catch. The journey is richer than the...
by Vishnu | Jun 18, 2018 | Love and Relationships, Marriage
I met a couple celebrating their 60th wedding anniversary recently. I was blown away that a marriage could last this long! Climbing Mt. Kilimanjaro? Sure. Running a marathon. I can see it. Walking a 100 km on a pilgrimage to the Palani Murugan temple in Tamilnadu. Ok....
