The Comfort Of Not Letting Go of Your Ex

I was a hermit for years of my life as I struggled to make peace with letting go of my ex. I wasn’t one of these people who said live and let live after my divorce was over. I was going to hold onto that relationship to the bitter end of time while my ex moved on with...

Your Ex Didn’t Do You Like This

“I think the problem is that we depend on our loves to love us the way we should love ourselves.” Unknown You blame your ex. You believe your ex may have been the devil incarnate. You believe your ex ruined your life and treated you worse than the worst person you’ve...

Your Ex Was the Mirror

“If you are irritated by every rub, how will your mirror be polished?” Rumi It was the holidays. It was the New Year. It was just Valentine’s day. When do we ever start the diet? I think of myself as relatively healthy and swim a couple times a week. Unfortunately...