by Vishnu | Apr 27, 2020 | Divorce, Love and Relationships, Marriage
You want to save your marriage. But your spouse doesn’t. What do you do? I vowed to do I would do whatever I could to save my marriage. When my ex told me that she wanted out of the marriage, I felt breathless and my heart started racing. I felt light-headed, afraid,...
by Vishnu | Sep 12, 2018 | Uncategorized
You’re in a bit of an Indian parent masala. Your boyfriend is Indian and you’re not. (Unfortunately, your partner’s parents are Indian as well!?) You had dreamy hopes of marrying him and living happily ever after. The only problem is that your partner hails from that...
by Vishnu | Sep 2, 2018 | Culture, Love and Relationships
(If you’re looking for my book on How to Get Indian Parents to Accept Your Marriage Proposal, get it here.) Talking to Indian parents about love and marriage is different than it is in other cultures. You don’t simply approach your parents and tell them you’ve...
by Vishnu | Aug 5, 2018 | Love and Relationships, Marriage
I wondered out loud last week how couples stay married, after tying the knot. I theorized that it’s easy to be in a good relationship when dating but there’s a serious plot twist after marriage. The chase is more enticing than the catch. The journey is richer than the...
by Vishnu | Jul 26, 2018 | Love and Relationships
Some people are good at relationships. They grew up in healthy environments with happy parents. They learned to be emotionally mature and resilient in the face of hardship. They learned how to value and prioritize relationships. One of these relationships bloomed into...