5 Harmful Behaviors That Ruin Marriage

“We are drawn to people whose issues fit perfectly with our own in a way that guarantees a reenactment of the old, familiar struggle we grew up with.” Terrence Real, The New Rules of Marriage. As someone who was married for nearly a decade, I went through the ups and...

What If I Don’t Want a Divorce?

I don’t want a divorce. I wanted a divorce as much as I wanted the shingles. Or a nice juicy steak (as a vegetarian, not very much). Or to jump off a cliff on a bungee cord where I would free fall 100 feet and bounce back up. In other words, I didn’t want...