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“Life Always Waits for Some Crisis to Occur Before Revealing Itself At Its Most Brilliant” –Paulo Coelho
Have you lost hope about the future?
Blindsided by a divorce or breakup you never saw coming?
No idea what to do next?
Or who you are anymore?
If a divorce or breakup you never wanted has devastated you and turned your life upside down, you’re likely having trouble getting out of bed in the morning…
You’re experiencing the deepest pain you’ve ever known, along with bouts of depression, anger and loneliness….
“Why is this happening? Why me? What do I do now?”
So many questions but not many answers.
You start to believe you no longer have control over your life or your future.
You feel powerless, like a violent tornado has entered your life and turned it upside down.
If you are in the middle of a difficult divorce, have signed your final divorce paperwork or are dealing with the aftermath of a breakup, know this…
You can survive, get back on track and create an entirely new life for yourself.
In my own life, I needed a minute (ok, fine, five years) to find the emotional, spiritual and mental tools that helped me move on.
At the end of the day, I found that recovering from divorce is about finding yourself.
Divorce is a gift that allows you to discover who you are and to figure out why you’re here.
In a way, it’s a gift because not many people experience profound and complete loss that forces them to start over and rebuild their lives.
Yes, I’m here to tell you that total devastation and rock bottom are unique gifts that can transform your life for the better.
Who would have ever thought, right!?!
Today, I’m relieved and happy to say that my life is better in so many ways. I boosted my self-worth, live in accordance with my values, do fulfilling work, am more spiritually aligned and have wonderful people in my life.
When I started writing this blog, I heard from people whose life journeys were similar to yours—divorced, broken up and separated. Lost about what to do next. No idea who they were or why they were here or what was next.
I want you to know that there is a future for you … and should I say it?
A better life ahead.
No matter how old you are or how dark your circumstances seem, you can get through this. You can find your purpose and reason for being here on Earth.
You can create an even more purposeful and fulfilling life than you had before.
I coach people on a 1-on-1 basis, helping them piece their lives back together so they can discover who they are after all the wreckage has cleared. The result is peace of mind, purpose and direction in life.
Common coaching issues that I work with:
Changing feelings of anger, resentment, abandonment, rejection and low self-worth to finding wholeness + self-acceptance + peace.
Letting go of the past but reclaiming your free-spirited, independent and optimistic attitude towards life you use to have before.
Feeling more confident about yourself and having a positive and hopeful attitude towards your future. Feeling courageous about the next chapter.
Knowing what you want and having a sense of direction.
Using your pain to help others, heal others, do more meaningful work in the world and create a life that’s in alignment with who you truly are.
What results have people had with your coaching?
Read what my clients have to say about me by visiting my YELP page.
Is coaching for everyone?
Life coaching is a relatively new practice and faces myths and stereotypes.
I’ve found coaching to be effective for myself and others I coach.
Although I believe coaching is for everyone, here is who I want to work with.
I want to work with people who believe in the power of coaching and changing. If you think coaching is woo-woo and unable to help you, let’s not work together. I want people who are excited about change, transformation and possibilities.
Also, I prefer to work with people who are going through serious life catastrophes. This may sound odd but this is where I work best. I worked as a lawyer for immigrants who didn’t know whether they could remain in the country. I worked with parents who were about to lose their children in custody battles. I work best with people facing stressful and challenging situations.
My coaching is for people who are completely lost and who want to reset their lives. I’ve been where you are. I understand you and I want to work with you.
If you are stressed about day-to-day life, are uncertain about your job, I’m likely not the coach for you.
I want to work with people who are at rock bottom because I know that’s where you can make the greatest changes and impact.
Finally, I want to work with people who will take action and who are ready for change. If you want to speak hypothetically and in theories, I’m not the coach for you. If you’re resistant to action, I’m likely not the coach for you.
I’m ready to work with people who are ready to do the work (both internal and external).
There are 4 ways we can work together
See Your Future Coaching
1 (50 min) coaching session via Tel/Facetime/Skype:
U.S. $99 for 1 session
This is a coaching session that uses visualization exercises to help you see what’s next for you. You will be able to see how your future life will look like and envision life beyond today.
This one session will help you:
Feel at peace knowing everything is going to be ok.
Look past the feelings of uncertainty and sadness and feel excited about the future.
Be filled with hope and have a vision of something that you can work towards.
Know that your life isn’t over and that you have the power in your hands to create the life you want.
See a future happy, smiling and vibrant you.
Clarity Coaching if You’re Considering Divorce
3 (50 min) coaching session via Tel/Facetime/Skype:
U.S. $299 for 3 sessions
-> A clarity session will help you put your pending divorce into perspective. It will help you make decisions about a breakup or divorce you’re facing.
The clarity sessions will:
Help you come to terms with what’s happening in your life so your life will stop feeling like it’s spinning out of control.
Help you get clear on what you want and make decisions.
Give you, not your ex, the power over your life. It will help you cut through the massive confusion of feelings and weight of your emotions to help you see your life clearly so you can make the best decision for you.
Feel clearer and more peaceful than ever before.
No more tossing and turning at night. Get out of bed in the morning with confidence, knowing what to do and knowing you’re going to be fine.
Live more in the present moment so you’re confident in your decisions today but also can learn to deal with the uncertainty of the future.
Awakening Coaching for Self-Acceptance and Self-Worth
4 (50 min) coaching sessions via Tel/Facetime/Skype:
US $399 for 4 sessions
The awakening coaching sessions will help you stop feeling like a failure and help you rebuild your self-worth after a heart-crushing divorce or breakup.
This coaching is called the awakening coaching because it will awaken you to who you truly are, underneath the stress, turmoil and pain you’re experiencing.
You will learn how to know yourself, appreciate yourself, and feel complete by yourself.
You will learn more about your values, beliefs, dreams and desires so you stop feeling like you don’t know yourself anymore. We will find the optimistic and hopeful “you” that used to be there.
These sessions will help you remove the emotional soundtrack, mental thought patterns and inner gremlins which keep you feeling like you’re an unworthy person.
This is a unique coaching session I developed through my work with clients who have grown up in tumultuous homes, experienced traumatic life experiences and have lost a sense of self.
The awakening coaching sessions will help you know, like and accept yourself for who you are. It will help you to develop ways to let go of “I’m not good enough” thoughts and feelings once and for all.
The end result of this coaching is you will find that you have a friend at all times and that friend is yourself.
With more confidence and feelings of self-worth, you will feel more positive, more courageous with whatever comes your way and more excited about your future.
You’ll go for walks in the park with a lake and beautiful roses, simply enjoying your own company.
You’ll feel more confident when dating and only date people who respect you and respect your self-worth.
You will find yourself being more assertive, saying “no” more and being more mindful of boundaries so people don’t take advantage of you.
You’ll feel confident in your own skin as you embrace ease, happiness and joy. Feel giddy at times and smile to yourself at other times, content being who you are.
Life Purpose Coaching For The Next Chapter
5 (50 min) coaching sessions via Tel/Facetime/Skype:
US $499 for 5 sessions
Life purpose coaching session will help you figure out what you’re supposed to be doing with your life now that your relationship has ended. The 5 sessions will help you discover what you were meant to do as well as give you a roadmap to get there.
This coaching does not stem from any career advice I share with you. In fact, we eliminate traditional career advice, societal expectations and stuff you read on career blogs. We throw out the things you hear on LinkedIn and you’ve heard from career counselors. This coaching isn’t about rewriting your resume or updating your LinkedIn profile.
I’ve found a unique way to help you get to your purpose. We go through your various life journeys from your childhood to today to find the scars, battles and challenges you’ve overcome. In your story and your history is a strong and repetitive message.
As we uncover your story and unearth your past, you will:
Discover your life purpose for this life and how you are to spend the rest of your time here.
See beyond the dead-end to a more meaningful life and fulfilling path.
Find work that takes all of your skills, abilities and gifts and serves your greater purpose.
Start doing purposeful work that you’re passionate about and no longer feels like work.
Feel free instead of imprisoned by obligation, routine and climbing the career ladder. It’s time to break out.
Find joy and excitement by discovering and living your life’s purpose that has been cultivated through your struggles and pain.
Jump out of bed in the morning ready to start on working on your art and do the thing you’re supposed to be doing.
Feel free, passionate and soulful about doing what you were meant to do. Create art. Serve people. Be in alignment with your life’s greater purpose.
Pursue work with courage and confidence knowing your entire life has prepared you for this work.
“I was going through a very chaotic and difficult time after my marriage ended. I did not know what to do next and felt hopeless. You gave me the confidence I needed to get through each day. I can breathe again and feel peace again. I know my life direction. Thank you.”
“More than anything else, you gave me the confidence to believe in myself. Once I had faith in myself, I had faith in my future.”
Are you ready to start over, learn who you are and build a new life for yourself?
Enter your information below.
Within 48 hours, you’ll receive a confirmation email with an online intake form.
Complete the online form, schedule your session and pay the online invoice.
On the day of your session, show up ready and present for a life-changing experience.
Not sure which coaching session is right for you? Email me at vishnu @ vishnusvirtues.com and include your phone number for a free 15 minute introductory call.