Will I Find Someone Better Than My Ex?

Did I think I could find someone better than my ex?

My ex-wife is an amazing woman who overcame so many challenges in her life to become the woman she has become today.

She is a doctor, beautiful, smart, outgoing, organized, and charming. She was a great cook and great host. She had a great laugh and enjoyed living life to the fullest.

How was I ever going to find someone better than my ex?

Believe it or not, I was devastated about the divorce because I thought that the most amazing person I could find was going to be in my past.

When someone is so beautiful, smart, and gregarious, how could I ever compete?

I didn’t want second best.

I already met the most wonderful person and spent years with her so how would anyone else ever come close?

If you are feeling regret about letting go of your ex, I want you to listen particularly close today.

I’ve made it to the other side.

I struggled for years to let go but was finally able to. Letting go of my ex was my life’s biggest struggle but with all the work I did, I have become a free and happy person once again.

I started dating and found it frustrating for sure. I never found anyone that even came close to my ex until the person I am with today.

The Gods must have decided to throw me a bone by bringing this miraculous woman into my life.

We met in the most unbelievable circumstances while a friend was waiting in the transit lounge on the way to Bali.

Yes, my woman friend met her. My friend met this beautiful village girl in an Asian airport and told me about her.

I was with my friend one day when my friend decided to call this beautiful Asian girl. Said beautiful Asian woman was doing her hair at the hair-dresser.

Within an hour call, I suddenly found myself on the call with her as well. What started as one call with her at the hair-dresser’s has turned into one of the most beautiful relationships I’ve ever had.

She too is amazing.

Then, I realized that she’s actually more amazing than my ex in this way.

She’s perfect for me.

She may not be as smart as my ex, ambitious as my ex, a go-getter like my ex but we fit each other like a jigsaw puzzle.

She’s a simple girl who told me that her number 1 priority in life was being happy. Ummm…yes, please!

So although she is not necessarily better than my ex in any objective way, she is better than my ex in the way that it counts most. She’s a great fit for me.

We share similar values, views of the world and have similar life goals.

In my view, since I found someone who is a much better fit for me, I found someone better than my ex.

If you have come out of a relationship or have been out one for a while and feel like you won’t meet anyone better, I’m here to tell you otherwise. If you’re still hoping your ex comes back, I have good news for you.

The only thing that’s in the way between you and someone who’s a great fit for you is your belief about your ability to find someone who’s right for you.

Here are 4 things you can do to improve your prospects of finding someone who’s better for you than your ex.

1. Let go of your ex completely.

I’m glad you’re here because I’m going to teach you how to let go of your ex. I’m going to show you how to forgive, change the story about your past, and get to the root cause of what’s keeping you stuck.

If you need support and want to move on sooner, consider hiring me to coach you. I’ve been where you are and can help you get over your breakup and get your life back.

2. Believe it’s possible to find someone new.

Change your beliefs about love. This is going to be challenging if you came out of a bad breakup or divorce. You’re going to have painful and twisted beliefs about love to start with. This is going to require adopting a new set of beliefs and practicing trusting people again.

I wrote two books to help you along on your journey to find someone better than your ex. Pick them up Does True Love Exist or Love After Heartbreak in the Amazon store today (affiliate links).

3. Improve yourself and rebuild your self-worth.

The most important thing you can do to find a better partner is to become a higher quality version of yourself. If you’re vibrating at a higher frequency, you’ll attract people who are at your energy level. In addition to raising your vibrations and your worth, do the inner work of self-discovery, self-examination, and improvement.

Work on improving yourself daily and raising yourself worth. For my book on raising your self-worth, read this book on Loving Yourself After Heartbreak (affiliate link). Watch this video here.

4.Know who it is you’re looking for.

You can’t find someone better or find someone compatible until you know who it is you’re looking for. You need to spend a few minutes outlining this person. I found the person I was looking for because I outlined them in this dream partner worksheet, got clear on them and envisioned them daily.

Do this worksheet and listen to this to audio meditation more than once. Do this worksheet weekly or monthly if you’re able to. Visualize the person you want on a daily basis.

You can absolutely find someone better than your ex by finding someone who’s a good fit for you.

But remember, this is going to take some work. I’m not sure if I mention this enough in my articles. Reading my articles or knowing what the process is not enough.

I wish you the very best on your relationship journey and wish you all the love and happiness you’re looking for.

It’s going to require active steps, daily habits and work on your part. If you do the work you will reap the rewards of a new love that you never imagined possible.

If you need support or coaching in this process, reply to this email or fill out the coaching inquiry form here.