What If a Better Life Is Waiting For You?
When everything falls apart, it feels like the end of your story.
The relationship ends. The job disappears. The dreams you built collapse in front of you.
But what if it’s not the end?
What if it’s not falling apart — but falling into place?
The pain you carry isn’t just from loss. It’s from clinging to an identity, a plan, a version of life that no longer fits who you are becoming.
When life clears away what’s no longer yours, it’s making room for something deeper, truer, and more aligned.
Starting over isn’t about erasing the past. It’s about becoming more fully yourself.
Stronger than the storm. Wiser than the heartbreak. Ready for the life that’s waiting to emerge.
About
Meet Vishnu – Inspirational Writer
Hi, I’m Vishnu.
My life once looked perfect — a dream romance, a thousand-guest wedding, and a future I thought was unshakable. But when my marriage ended, everything I had built collapsed. I lost my partner, my center, and a sense of who I was.
In the years that followed, I had to face my grief, let go of the pain, and slowly rebuild my identity from the ground up. Out of that pain came clarity and eventually, words. Writing became both my healing and my purpose.
Today, my writing on Vishnu’s Virtues has been read by more than 2 million people worldwide and through six published books. I share lessons on love, loss, and starting over, reminding others that every ending can become a new beginning.
The life you’ve always wanted is waiting for you beyond the life that fell apart.
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Frequently Asked Questions
What is this blog about?
This blog is about clarity and courage — breaking free from what’s holding you back, letting go of the past, and starting over with purpose so you can step into the life that’s been waiting for you all along.
Who are you writing for?
For anyone standing in the rubble of what was, ready for what’s next.
How would I know if this is for me?
This is for you if:
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If you’ve lost a relationship or a life you thought would last forever.
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If you feel stuck between the past and fear of the future.
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If you no longer recognize who you are or what your life is about.
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If you feel spiritually or emotionally disconnected.
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If you crave clarity, peace, and a genuine fresh start.
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If you’re ready to step into what’s next.
How long does it take to start over?
You don’t always need years to start over. You need a shift in perspective. Clarity accelerates healing.
Why will this work if nothing else has?
What can we accomplish together?
- Vishnu’s writing resonates because it’s born from lived heartbreak and a decade of seeking. His words blend spiritual wisdom with everyday clarity, offering more than advice but a path back to yourself. When nothing else has helped, his message awakens hope, healing, and the courage to start over.
Blog Publications
Divorced VS Never Been Married: Which Is Better?
I feel lucky to have been married. It was a sunny and humid day. I was meeting up with a friend and one of her friends was pet-sitting at a house nearby. “Let’s go hang out with her there, and ...
Your Breakup Is Invitation To Do the Inner Work
I’ve gone through one of the most excruciating and painful events I could have ever imagined: a separation with my ex that ultimately led to my divorce. For years of my life, I was stuck thinking...
How Cultural Shame About Divorce Shaped My Life And Choices
A story about divorce in the Asian culture. Sunny shares her experience with shame and stigma about divorce in the Asian culture and how to overcome your divorce in the Asian culture.
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Live Coaching Call With Clover Lam from Unconventional Asians
Watch a live coaching call with Clover Lam from Unconventional Asians.
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Are You Blaming Yourself For the Past Relationship Ending?
Are you blaming yourself for your past relationship ending? Do you feel like you are the on that’s solely at fault? Do you feel like you were the one who sabotaged it and led to it ending? If...
To Live In The Present, Make Peace With the Past
All of the advice about moving on from breakups and divorces is wrong. It’s so frustrating because all it does is keep you stuck in the past. So many people say cliched things like things ...
The Comfort Of Not Letting Go of Your Ex
The reason some people like to stay stuck in the past and don’t let go. Read this post to read about the comfort of staying stuck in the past.
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5 Unexpected Life Lessons I Learned From Divorce
Read these 5 lessons from author and blogger Mahevash Shaikh on her experiences and lessons with divorce.
...In Love But Worlds Apart During the Pandemic
A story about long distance relationships in the time of Corona. Lovers and couples are not able to visit and meet each other because of travel restrictions around the world.
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How To Process the Unbearable Pain of a Breakup
If you’re facing the emotional pain of a breakup, read this post on how to process the unbearable pain of your breakup. Learn how to process your feelings so you can move on and let go.
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